Mary
Istifanus
(not
her
real
name)
15
is
a
senior
secondary
school
drop-
out
who
has
been
sleeping
with
men
for money. One might think she is in denial as she
sees the act as one that is devoid of any personal
gratification, saying:
"I am not a prostitute, I just hustle to make ends
meet. My father is dead and my mother who
sells Akara can’t take care of us."
She explains how she got into prostitution. “My class
mates introduced me to the trade. One day, they
invited me to their restaurant after school where some
customers gave us money. We were then invited to a
particular hotel and since then, that was how I started
sleeping with men for money. I was suspended from
school for being rebellious and so I stopped
attending”.
Another underage prostitute, 17-year-old Grace who
opened up to LEADERSHIP said she was brought to
Abuja from her village in Nasarawa State to work for
one Hajiya who sells food in Garki Model market.
According to her, “Traders who we serve food to will
dash us money and tell us to meet them in a hotel in
the night. I have several boyfriends in the market;
even the wheelbarrow boys you think are poor can
give a girl as much as N2,000.
"This is how we make money and I send it home to
my mother to help them out.”
Nobody can say what is pushing teenage girls to
prostitution; most have blamed it largely on economic
and social factors. Dr Adeyinka Adetokunbo, a
Gynaecologist, observes that “teenage prostitution
leads to negative effects on the totality of the child
later on in life. Most of them have little access to
healthcare and suffer extremely unhygienic
conditions. It is also common knowledge that
prostitution promotes the spread of HIV because most
of their clients refuse to have protected sex with the
girls, believing that it will bring them fresh blood.
This early sexual intercourse causes a lot of damage
to children, including:
vaginal tearing, physical after-effects of torture, pain,
infection, or unwanted pregnancy, depression,
personality or sexual orientation confusion, problems
with behaviour, insomnia and loss of self-confidence.”
She further explained that in most cases, these
teenage prostitutes end up with sexually transmitted
diseases as Chlamydia, gonorrhoea, herpes, human
papilloma virus, HIV/AIDS, staphylococcus and
syphilis. They also experience pelvic pain and
inflammatory disease (PID), unwanted pregnancy,
trauma, stress, depression, anxiety, and risk of self-
mutilation, suicide and homicide.
Child psychologist, Peter Ishaya stated that child
prostitution is when underage teenagers start
experimenting with sex before their 18th birthday.
“The Jubilee Action report (1995) states that, up to 1
million female children join prostitution each year
around the world. You can attribute the causes to
poverty, unemployment, broken homes, and lack of
education, drugs, pornography, and rebellion”.
“Prostitution leaves young girls traumatised for years.
They end up not trusting anybody and become lazy
because they believe that they can make quick
money by just sleeping with a man. It also affects the
way they treat people because they sleep with men
who are their parents’ age or older. Then they tend to
stop respecting adults,” he added.
Pastor John Abiyomi of Gods Light and Truth
Ministry said:
“The Bible condemns prostitution under whatever
guise. It doesn’t matter the age of the person, God
frowns against it. It is written in 1 Corinthians 6:9-11
that none of the daughters of Israel shall be a cult
prostitute, and none of the sons of Israel shall be a
cult prostitute. You shall not bring the fee of a
prostitute or the wages of a dog into the house of the
Lord your God in payment for any vow, for both of
these are an abomination to the Lord your God.”
He also quotes, “In Kings 14:24 ‘Or do you not know
that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of
God? Do not be deceived: neither the sexually
immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men who
practice homosexuality, nor thieves, nor the greedy,
nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers will inherit
the kingdom of God.
And such were some of you. But you were washed,
you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of
the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God’.
The Bible also made references to some people that
practice prostitution in Leviticus: ‘And there were also
male cult prostitutes in the land. They did according to
all the abominations of the nations that the Lord. So
you can see from the verses that God frowns at the
practice of prostitution whether you are old or young.
Our bodies are the temple of the Lord and we have
been enjoined to keep it holy. For a prostitute is a
deep pit and a wayward wife is a narrow well. Like a
bandit she lies in wait, and multiplies the unfaithful
among men.”
God forbids involvement with prostitutes because He
knows such involvement is detrimental to both men
and women. He continues, “For the lips of an immoral
woman drip honey, and her mouth is smoother than
oil; but in the end, she is bitter as wormwood, sharp
as a two-edged sword. Her feet go down to death, her
steps lay hold of hell” (Proverbs 5:3-5 NKJV).
Prostitution not only destroys marriages, families, and
lives, but it destroys the spirit and soul in a way that
leads to physical and spiritual death. God’s desire is
that we stay pure and use our bodies as tools for His
use and glory (Romans 6:13). First Corinthians 6:13
says, “The body is not for sexual immorality but for
the Lord, and the Lord for the body.” Although
prostitution is sinful, prostitutes are not beyond God’s
scope of forgiveness”.